This question deck was created to help you talk about intimacy and sexuality with someone close to you — your life partner, spouse, friend, or anyone you wish to connect with — one-on-one, in pairs, trios, or even in a group.

Simple, accessible, subtle, diverse.

197 questions — and many more, since you’re always free to create your own in the flow of conversation with your partner in dialogue.

The questions serve several possible purposes:

Simple questions to create connection or intimacy

Inspirational questions to invite self-reflection

Challenges and playful prompts (Have you ever… Would you dare… Would you accept…)

Informative cards (Did you know that…)

Dare to speak a little more intimately.
Create deeper connection with your partner.
Speak to get closer, open up to be received.

Who can play?
A friend (one-on-one or in a group), a partner, a couple, or even a stranger…

Themes: sexuality, the body, relationship to self and others, communication, relationships, self-confidence, body image, experiences, pleasure, introspection, and guidance.

Draw a random card and let yourself be guided by the question.
Then develop your answer as much as you like, inspired by the moment.
Each question is just the beginning of a dialogue — an invitation to continue in your own way, with your own questions.

Suggestions:
Before or after answering, you may share your level of comfort and intimacy regarding the question.
Take a moment to pause before responding.
Notice how the question touches you.

This game can be extraordinary depending on your chosen level of honesty, authenticity, vulnerability, boldness, trust, and openness.

Connect authentically with yourself.
Have fun while deepening your connection.